Friday, March 29, 2013

March 29, 2013 ~ Hugs

March 29, 2013 ~ Hugs


"Through your embrace you speak a thousand words, without ever saying one."
~Source Unknown

"The world would be a better place if we smiled more often and hugged a bit longer."
~Source Unknown


According to author and psychotherapist Virginia Satir, we need four hugs a day for survival, eight hugs a day for maintenance, and twelve hugs a day for growth. Yikes! Most of us are probably severely hug deprived, even if we are in a loving relationship, unless we are parenting a family of twelve.

And then there is Ammachi ~ Amma ~ known as the Hugging Saint, who travels the world offering a loving embrace to all those who come to see her. It is said that Amma has embraced and comforted more than 32 million people. What is the source of her unlimited energy, love and compassion? “Where there is true love, everything is effortless,” Amma will say. I have not personally experienced the embrace of Amma, but I have met several people who have, and each one has recalled the experience with what seems like reverie, as if they can still feel the transmission of pure love radiating through them at that moment.

And then there is Juan Mann. You remember the YouTube video of the man who started a "Free Hug" movement a while back. Check out the video below. It's sure to bring a smile to your heart and make you want to run out and find someone to hug.


Researchers have actually studied the health benefits of hugging. When you hold someone close, the hormone oxytocin is released into the bloodstream, lowering blood pressure, reducing stress and anxiety and even potentially improving memory.

Today (and every day) I am grateful for this most wonderful and delicious way to give and receive love, to express our affection and appreciation, to share our joys and ease our sorrows. How easy it is to make someone's whole day by reaching out to offer this gift of pure love in a warm embrace. It's true, the world would be a better place if we smiled more often and hugged a bit longer. 

Sending 'virtual hugs' to all through the ethers, and many blessings this day.
~Joanna


Sunday, March 10, 2013

March 10, 2013 ~ Happy Hour

March 10, 2013 ~ Happy Hour

"Pleasure is spread through the earth in stray gifts to be claimed by whoever shall find."
 William Wordsworth

"Happiness is not a state to arrive at, but a manner of traveling."
~Margaret Lee Runbeck


Today I am feeling abundant gratitude for the "Happy Hours" that I am learning to create space for in each day. A recent move to a town farther north has increased my commute timea grueling hour each way on the 101 in bumper-to-bumper traffic. This was causing me great unhappiness. So I have found a new route to travel, along back roads with sweeping views of rolling green hills, happy cows grazing on the grass, lakes with graceful swans-a-swimming...and the lovely daffodils in the photo above. They caught my eye as I was rounding a corner one day, and I just had to stop the car and pull out my iPhone to capture the joy of the moment. 

The other thing that caught my eye at that corner was a sign that said "Happy Hour 4-6 PM." I smiled as I thought to myself, "That's it! My commute to work is my new Happy Hour!" It's a new adventure every day. I never know what will light up my soul that will inspire me to stop and take a photograph—a rafter of wild turkeys, a mountain reflection on a still lake, a vast sea of bright yellow mustard flowers gleaming in the morning sun, or what other surprises await each morning. I feel so blessed to be discovering the "stray gifts of pleasure spread through the earth" during this new "manner of traveling."

It got me thinking about the importance of finding time during the day to appreciate the beauty around us. Some time away from the tasks of daily living to slow down, breathe a little more deeply, and really feel the wonder and majesty of this miraculous life! And if we can't go outside in nature, we can always take a few moments for meditation, allowing ourselves moments of spaciousness, to ponder, feel and experience the universe within. There are many "stray gifts to be claimed" there as well. 

It's about being present, Being Here Now, as Ram Dass would remind us, being fully engaged, senses alert and alive, in wonder and appreciation. That is where we find happiness. We can get very caught up in the tasks of the day, and in our engrained habits and thought patterns, perhaps spending too much energy on worries about the future, or regrets about the past, being anywhere but Here Now. Each moment is a new moment, full of possibility, when we are awake and aware and alive. We can create moments or hours in our day to fill with soul-nourishing experiences, and invite joy and happiness in.

May your days be filled with many Happy Hours. Many Blessings,
Joanna